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How to Handle Finances with your New Spouse
Once married, many of us begin to share finances. From checking and savings accounts to mortgage payments and credit cards, finances for newly married couples can be a tricky endeavor, particularly if you don’t plan ahead and ask the right questions.
Here’s what you will need to consider when it comes to finances and your new spouse:
- Don’t automatically begin sharing finances if you and your spouse aren’t prepared – If you are recently married, and you haven’t yet had serious conversations about everything from a household budget to credit card spending, keep your finances separate. Some couples keep their finances separate throughout their marriage, and that’s okay; it’s about whatever works best for you as a couple.
- Keep the lines of communication open – If you must make a large purchase, inform your spouse and get his or her input. Expect your spouse to do the same. Keeping financial decisions from each other is a recipe for disaster, and it may lead to trust issues within the marriage.
- Talk about debt and how to get rid of it – If you or your spouse has credit card debt or student loan debt, for example, make a game plan for paying it off. It just doesn’t make good, financial sense to enter into a marriage with loads of debt, so the sooner you pay it off the sooner you’ll have the money to afford large purchases, like a home.
- Talk about monthly spending – If your spouse is a spender, keep him or her in check by setting a monthly spending limit, and follow it yourself, too. Keep each other honest by charging purchases on one, joint credit. Doing so can also allow you both to examine your monthly spending habits and find ways to cut back.
- Order a copy of your credit report, and ask your spouse to do the same – It’s nearly impossible to set financial goals together as a couple if one or both of you has past credit problems. Carefully review both credit reports so you can better gauge where you stand in terms of finances. Then, aim to repair your credit, if necessary, or to correct any errors or discrepancies.