Introduction
You may have a smart kid who figured out how Mom and Dad can get things using that little plastic card? To most kids, no matter what their parents really make, they see them as having the big bucks. They truly don’t get how it all works until they are much older. Hiding your credit card and laying down the law to the kids about never ever using it is all fine and dandy – in theory.
It’s a great idea to do this. However, it does not mean your mischievous little prince or princess will necessarily follow the rules. To a child, rules were made to be broken and even if they hear that there are consequences for such actions beforehand, they don’t always understand just how serious the ramifications of their actions might be. Then, there are some kids, who no matter what you tell them, are going to challenge the rules, just to see what they can get away with. Either way, their actions are rarely thought out or well-planned.
Kids and Plastic
Plastic makes great toys for kids, but not when it comes to credit cards! If Billy or Susie have found your credit card and have figured out how to use it, they have most likely made some wild and frivolous purchase. It’s probably something expensive, after all, the true value of a dollar probably has not struck them yet, and maybe even something you had never or would never have considered buying. Still, the damage is done. The situation does call for discipline, however, don’t be too harsh, no matter how upset you may be. The child will feel bad enough as it is, and this is a financial lesson best learned sooner rather than later.
No Need to Panic. The Law is on Your Side (and your child’s too!).
Here’s another reason not to be so harsh when you find out about the kiddo’s faux pas. Sure, he or she will need to learn the consequences of their actions, so return the item they bought, take away their allowance and make them think they are paying you back in installments, or have them take out the trash and do a lot of chores to “work it off.” However, you don’t really have any cause for panic. Children often misbehave and make mistakes. It’s part of growing up. In this case, however, the law is on your side and will protect both you and your minor child.
For one, you nor your child can be held financially responsible for this transaction. They’re underage and do not fully understand the cause and effect of their actions. You as the parent and credit card holder should not and will not be held responsible. Both the law and the credit card company will work with you to see that this is the case. Just be sure to report the transaction as fraud to your credit card company or issuer as soon as you can and explain the situation in all honesty.
Your Rights
While the company who sold the item to your minor child might be understanding about the return, you could encounter one who is less than accommodating. Your credit card company will have issued a charge back. so of course, the merchant might very well dispute it, angry at having lost that profit. Also, they might be feeling pretty foolish at this point for selling such a big ticket item to a mere child. They shoulder some of the blame and should have been much more responsible.
If the company disputes the chargeback, you have the right to request that they observe your lawful rights and either make arrangement to pick up the item or allow you to return it to them yourself, in new and clean condition, of course. If they still refuse, send them a legal notice as to your intent to liquidate the item in question if it is not allowed to be returned or picked up by the company by a specified date. The law says that within thirty days, the property can be considered abandoned, and you, as the new “owner” now have the right to liquidate it. With the law on your side, odds are, you will also be allowed to keep the proceeds from said liquidation.
Hopefully, Billy or Sally (or both if they were in cahoots) have learned a valuable financial lesson from this. Hide your credit cards and reemphasize the rules and consequences of this kind of unacceptable action. While the damage could have been much worse, you can breathe a sigh of relief. You child’s use of your credit card can not and will not led to financial ruin.
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